Preview โ The Goal
๐ฏ The Goal: Recognize the classic push-pull trap before it drains you both. The pattern: one partner senses distance and moves closer โ more texts, more reassurance-seeking. The other feels crowded and pulls further back. Which triggers more pursuit. Which triggers more retreat. Nobody's the villain; it's two nervous systems stuck in a feedback loop โ and naming the loop is the first move that breaks it.