How to Break the Anxious-Avoidant Loop

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Preview โ€” The Goal

๐ŸŽฏ The Goal: Recognize the classic push-pull trap before it drains you both. The pattern: one partner senses distance and moves closer โ€” more texts, more reassurance-seeking. The other feels crowded and pulls further back. Which triggers more pursuit. Which triggers more retreat. Nobody's the villain; it's two nervous systems stuck in a feedback loop โ€” and naming the loop is the first move that breaks it.