How to Fight the Problem, Not Each Other

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Preview โ€” The Goal

๐ŸŽฏ The Goal: Arguments shouldn't have a winner and a loser. The minute you try to WIN a dispute with your partner, the relationship loses โ€” because now it's you vs. them instead of you two vs. the problem. Couples who last aren't the ones who never fight; they're the ones who fight side-by-side against the issue instead of face-to-face against each other.