How to Stop Romanticizing Potential

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Preview โ€” The Goal

๐ŸŽฏ The Goal: Date the person, not your imaginary version. Falling for who someone COULD be ignores who they are today โ€” and it's how smart people spend years in relationships with a fictional character. The cruel math: you're not in love with them; you're in love with your own screenplay, and they just haven't read the script.