Preview — The Goal
🎯 The Goal: 'You always do this' has never once, in human history, produced the response 'you know what, you're right.' Accusations flip the other person into defense-attorney mode instantly — now you're litigating the word 'always' instead of the actual problem. The pivot: replace finger-pointing with neutral observation + your experience — 'I noticed X happened, and it left me feeling Y.' Same complaint, zero prosecution, and suddenly the conversation is about fixing something instead of surviving it.